Updated: Tuesday, 30 Mar 2010, 10:01 AM EDT
Published : Tuesday, 30 Mar 2010, 10:01 AM EDT
Below is a transcript of the recent 'Retirement: How to Survive and Thrive' online chat conducted March 24th on WAVY.COM.
11:47
Brooks KXAN: Hi, and welcome to our chat on retirement. We'll
be starting in about 13 minutes.
12:00
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Hello!
12:00
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I am Nancy K. Schlossberg--I am
fascinated with transitions and especially the retirement
transition.
12:01
Brooks KXAN: Hi there, panelists!!!! Let's get started! i'd
like to introduce our panel today...
12:01
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I look forward to our conversation.
nancy
12:02
Brooks KXAN: Dr. Schlossberg is an expert on retirement and
aging issues. And Melissa is our moderator and work/life coach who
founded Work/Life Austin.
Welcome, both of you!
12:02
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Thank you!
12:02
Brooks KXAN: I'd like to ask Melissa to kick things off today
with a few thoughts on retirement - specifically, what kinds of
issues it brings up for people in their lives. Then we'll ask Dr.
Schlossberg to give some of her opening thoughts. THen we'll take
questions.
12:05
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: From the personal perspective,
it's one of those things that must be planned for, but which is
also best viewed as an experiment. So many things will change and
ought to be thought about - identity, social interaction, how one
finds meaning, marriage relationships, community connection.
12:05
Twitter ideas4retirees: Retirement Will Kill You!!!!
http://bit.ly/bBUkri
12:05
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I agree with Melissa. I see
retirement as a series of transitions. Most people focus on their
financial portfolios. I am concerned about their psychological
portfolios. As one man said to me, "I knew I had enough money. I
did not realize that I really had to find a new life, a new
structure for my life."
12:05
Brooks KXAN: Occasionally I"ll publish comments with little
icons next to them - those are from Twitter, and they're just
showing the buzz out there about the topic.
12:07
Brooks KXAN: My friend's dad just retired after 35+ years
working for the government - FAA - and right before it happened, he
told us he was terrified.
12:07
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Probably the people who make the
transition most successfully are the ones who put some thought into
it in advance. And, even with that, people ought to be patient with
themselves. Frequently what looks great from the outside, turns out
to be a bit different in reality.
12:07
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: The person who twittered,
"Retirement will kill you." raises an interesting point. Retirement
will kill you if it means doing nothing. But if it is seen as a
transition which presents opportunities to follow different paths,
then it is an energizer--not a killer.
12:07
Brooks KXAN: Now he's complaining that his wife is talking
back to him after all these years :) I figure it's because he's
aroudn the house all the time. She retired a while back, and is
loving it.
12:08
[Comment From Young momYoung mom: ] I am in my early 30s and
am definitely worried about having enough retirement - already. Dr.
Schlossberg, what is the estimated amount a person retiring in
approx. 30 years should have saved to retire 'comfortably'?
12:08
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12:08
Are you ready for retirement?
Absolutely
( 17% )
Getting there
( 33% )
Not even close
( 50% )
12:09
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I cannot answer your question about
money. I am a counseling psychologist and not a financial expert.
It is important to discuss this with a financial person. I found
that it takes more than you think.
12:09
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Fear is not uncommon, and for
many good reasons.
12:10
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I would like to share the various
paths I found that people follow:
There is the Continuer--keep doing what you did but modify
it;
There is the Adventurer--doing something entirely different;
There is the Searcher--looking for his/her nitche;
There is the Easy Glider--taking each day as it comes;
There is the Involved Spectator
12:11
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] I was forced into
retirement at an early age and had to figure out how to survive off
of my SSI check which was a big difference from my pay check. .
.how do I plan for the future?
12:11
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Young Mom - what you need for
retirement depends on things like your standard of living, the cost
of living, etc. There's not a one-size fits all answer. It is best
to do some financial planning with a professional to get a handle
on what you might need.
12:12
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] I think the
toughest adustent for me was trying to figure out what I was going
to do with my time. I became very depressed.
12:12
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Early retiree-- forced into a
transition is never easy. It makes us feel out of control. But if
you can see it as an opportunity to pursue new paths, it will be
easier. nancy
12:12
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: early retiree - is work an
option or not?
12:12
Brooks KXAN: Young mom - i'm looking up some resources for
you right now ..
12:13
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Have you ready any books on
retirement planning?
12:13
When will you retire?
In the next 5 to 10 years
( 33% )
In the next 20 years
( 50% )
I was supposed to retire a long time ago
( 0% )
No plans to retire.
( 17% )
12:13
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Work at this time
is not an option because doing 40 hours a week was making me sick.
I was in the hospital a lot and I was involuntarily terminated.
12:14
Brooks KXAN: Nancy has actually written some books on the
subject of retirement transitions - i'll add links here in a second
while she discusses what they're about.
12:14
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I think there are some good
resources for you, and one is to visit your community college or
university. Most have career centers and can help with some career
counseling.
12:15
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] I have chosen to
do advocacy work. It helps my mental health a lot and it gets me
out of the house. With this type of work, I can go when my body
says I can and not go when it does not want to go.
12:15
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Early Retiree -- Work was making
you sick? Would all forms of work be likely to do that given your
health situation, or was it specific to your field? I understand
what you're saying - that it's not an option right now. But, just
wondering....
12:15
Brooks KXAN: Revitalizing Retirement, 2009
http://www.amazon.com/Revitalizing-Retirement-Reshaping-Identity-Relationships/dp/1433804131/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1269450874&sr=8-1-spell
12:16
Brooks KXAN: Here's an About.com resource guide for financial
retirement planning
http://retireplan.about.com/http://retireplan.about.com/
12:16
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Ok, I would be happy to mention my
books. Let me first explain how I happened to write books on
retirement. I wrote books on transitions in general. Then I retired
and found I was having difficulty adjusting. So then I started
interviewing people and ended up writing two books on retirement.
You can check them out on my web, www.transitionsthroughlife.com
12:16
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Early Retiree - advocacy
work/volunteer work are great things to do. Not only does it give
you some purpose, it provides structure, social interaction, and
probably helps you stay current.
12:17
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Melissa is correct. Your
Psychological Portfolio includes your Identity, your Relationships,
and your Purpose. Those need to be strengthened.
12:17
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Melissa, I think
it was the demand. I have a dual diagnosis. . .sickle cell (ss) and
multiple sclerosis. I also fight with depression. I hope to work
again in the future but right now, I have to work on getting back
to "healthy". . .
12:17
[Comment From BellaBella: ] Hi all, I could really use some
help with retirement advice.
12:18
[Comment From Retird GovtRetird Govt: ] We sold our where we
lived and put it in savings. It is enough to cover our house we
purchased a few yrs ago in Tx. Should we use that money to pay our
house we now live in retirement.
12:18
Brooks KXAN: Just to be clear, our experts today are more on
the transitions than on financial, but we ahve researchers here at
KXAn whoa re helping you find some great resources for that.
12:18
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Dr. Schlossberg,
I will check out your books. Thanks for the advice.
12:18
Twitter davidwsumner: RT @SFANART “THERE’S NO
RETIREMENT FOR AN ARTIST, IT’S YOUR WAY OF LIVING SO
THERE’S NO END TO IT.” - Henry Moore
12:19
Twitter podsender: Tap Retirement Funds To Buy A Home?:-
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12:19
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Early Retiree - then I'd say you
are likely on a good track. Staying engaged in the world without
getting overwhelmed is the balance you seek at this point. If you
don't feel you've got it right, then pay attention to what feels
askew for you and brainstorm for yourself about what you can do
about it.
12:19
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: You make an excellent point. If
your work is your life--you are a writer or an artist--there is no
retirement.
12:19
Brooks KXAN: Reitrd Govt - here's a source for you on that..
Linked above.
12:19
[Comment From rick garciarick garcia: ] have you heard of a
government plan called "Guaranteed Retirement Account" or Universal
401k?
12:19
[Comment From BellaBella: ] Oh, okay, thanks for letting me
know! But I will have some trouble definitely with the transition.
I'm a hard-working mom with a full-time job.
12:20
Brooks KXAN: Then stay with us, Bella!!! We've got a couple
of experts right here.
12:20
Brooks KXAN: Rick - checking on that for ya...
12:20
Brooks KXAN: Experts? Have you heard of anything like that?
12:20
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Bella - what sort of things are
you grappling with?
12:20
[Comment From BellaBella: ] Thanks, Brooks. This chat should
definitely help me figure things out!
12:21
Brooks KXAN: Rick -
Here's the AARP on the subject - comparisons of both the
things you're mentioning ...
http://assets.aarp.org/rgcenter/econ/saving_options.pdf
It's a good chart, I'd recommend.
12:21
[Comment From BellaBella: ] Well, I'm a little worried about
the transition. For example, will I have enough money? Should I
stay in the house I'm in or move to a smaller apartment for one?
Very confusing stuff, eh?
12:21
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: One woman told me that she used to
help organizations write mission statements. She is retired and
realizes she needs a mission statement for herself.
12:21
How do you view retirement?
Looking forward to it!!
( 63% )
Terrified!
( 13% )
Wondering if I'll ever get there.
( 25% )
12:22
Twitter onlineitalia: News: Gisele goes into "retirement"
http://online-italia.com/2010/03/24/gisele-goes-into-retirement/
12:22
Brooks KXAN: (If Gisele can do it, you can!)
12:22
Brooks KXAN: <----- nerd alert - lightening things up.
Carry on!
12:22
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Rick - I've heard of those
concepts, but my impression is that they were policy proposals and
are not current reality. Not an expert on financial aspects of
retirement, though...
12:22
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Bella,
You need to meet with a financial person and also think about
which path you want to pursue. Do you want to adventure and do
something new? Maybe set up an internship for yourself.
12:22
Twitter marilynmilligan: Finally remembered my password! A
month into retirement & I’ve forgotten lots already :-)
12:23
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: What do you mean about you have
forgotten things? Can you share a little more.
12:23
Brooks KXAN: Melissa and Nancy - how would one go about
writing a Mission Statement for Themselves?
12:23
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Bella - yes, those questions are
confusing. It's what financial advisors should be able to help you
figure out.
12:23
Brooks KXAN: That comment about forgetting things is from
Twitter - so i can publish her stuff, but she can't see our
comments. Sorry I forgot to mention that part! :)
12:24
Brooks KXAN: They're for carrying on the conversation, more
than anything.
12:24
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Thanks Melissa. I
will.
12:24
[Comment From BellaBella: ] Well, Nancy, I've always stayed
on the safe side so maybe I SHOULD take an adventure; do a little
something for myself. I always always always put my kiddies first,
but after I retire (terrified!) I should always have time put away
for something fun and adventurous!
12:24
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Brooks - great question. There's
a book, called "The Path" that has a process for individuals. It
has a number of exercises that lead to the creation of a mission
statement.
12:25
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Mission statement--What do you want
to do in the next few years? What is your mission in life? One
reporter told me his mission in retirement was to have an art show
and to begin seeing himself as an artist. One retired government
employee said his mission was to help people. Actually, I wrote
about him in my first book, Retire Smart, Retire Happy. He decided
(much to the shock of his friends) to become a message therapist.
He had a mission to help people that way.
What is your mission?
12:26
Brooks KXAN: Nancy's author page on Amazon.com
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=nancy+schlossberg&x=0&y=0
She has some great books on this subject.
12:26
[Comment From hotman485hotman485: ] My wife and I just got
divorced. We had been working on a retirement fund together for the
past fifteen years and now I'm at a loss. Can anyone help me?
12:26
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: A mission statement for an
individual is very much like one for an organization - it's about
crystallizing your core motivations and values into a motivating
sentence that can help guide your actions and decisions.
12:26
Brooks KXAN: Here's an About.com resource guid on that,
Hotman
http://financialplan.about.com/cs/divorceandmoney/a/AssetsInDivorce.htm
12:27
Brooks KXAN: It's called Dividing Retirement Assets in
Divorce. Speaks exactly to your issue.
12:27
[Comment From hotman485hotman485: ] Thanks, Brooks. I knew I
could count on you.
12:27
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Thanks. My interviews with many
people for both Retire Smart, Retire Happy and Revitalizing
Retirement, showed the resiliency and creativity of people in
transition. You might feel stuck, but reading about people, looking
at books like the one Melissa suggested, seeing a couch, starting a
support group--all of those things can help.
12:28
Brooks KXAN: Hey! My pleasure.
12:28
[Comment From hotman485hotman485: ] Brooksy, thanks again.
pleasure talking to you.
12:28
Brooks KXAN: :) Right back atcha! good luck, man.
12:29
[Comment From hotman485hotman485: ] Thanks, babe.
12:29
[Comment From imatalossimataloss: ] Retirement? S.O.S!
12:30
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: One of the most important things I
found was finding your connector. One man who retired at 70 was
married to a younger woman. The first day after retirement, his
wife went to work, his kids went to school and there he was with
his mother-in-law. He called a woman who had written columns for
the local paper and said, Help. She connected him with a forest
ranger where he worked for the summer. She then hired him. You
never know what is around the corner.
12:30
Brooks KXAN: WHILE YOU'RE HERE - next week we'll be
discussing FINANCIAL PLANNING aroudn retirement with a financial
expert who can help you answer the money questions you're grappling
with.
So come back next week for those. Stay here today for
head-related stuff :)
12:31
Brooks KXAN: Why do you suppose people might wait until
retirement to pursue those things? I mean, aside from money issues?
Or is it only money issues?
12:31
[Comment From rick garciarick garcia: ] okay thanks, just
afraid with the current fiscal situation that the government might
decide to take control of our retirement options. The Guaranteed
Retirement Account basically forces you to participate by taking
away the current incentives to save in a retirement account. Like
employer matched contributions.
12:31
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: I have written about the Planning
conundrum. We are told to plan ahead yet people resist planning.
Melissa, what are your insights on this?
12:32
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Rick - last I heard those
proposals being discussed was a few years ago...
12:32
Brooks KXAN: Rick, we're bringing on a financial expert next
week, same time same place, to discuss money issues surroudning
this> they'll be able ot answer those questions.
12:32
[Comment From imatalossimataloss: ] Retirement? S.O.S. I'm
terrified!
12:32
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: What is terrifying you? Can you
articulate your fears?
12:33
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] I found that even
in saving for retirement, I had to use all my money to pay medicl
bills. This scares me because I know I will not have a cushion when
I get older.
12:34
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: People do resist planning ahead,
it seems because the future includes so many unknowns and unknowns
create fear, and we'd rather just keep on living than pay attention
to what causes us the discomfort of fear. Yet, looking ahead,
questioning, and planning is the exact thing to do to reduce the
fear. Some people just don't realize it. Or still want to avoid it
because it can be uncomfortable (which feels hard).
12:34
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] I am terrified
that I will have to depend on other people for the rest of my life
and never have anything of my own. . .that is terrifying
12:34
[Comment From patpat: ] How can I find work after retiremen?
I have to much time on my hands and not enough money
12:34
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Your concerns are financial and
next week's program might help. Use this time to EXPLORE ways to
survive in financially troubled times and ways to figure out how to
do what you would love to do.
12:35
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] I try to look on
the bright side and say that advocacy work is doing it for me. .
.well, it is keeping me sane but I still have bils like student
loans, car payment and credit card bills. . .that is terrifying!
12:35
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Early retiree - that would be
terrifying. And, may not be the truth. You may be able to create
other options, other realities for yourself. Focusing on these
ideas will help your frame of mind and ability to create.
12:35
[Comment From Randy campbellRandy campbell: ] Looking at
retiring in early 2011. What scares me is health care cost?
12:35
[Comment From hotman485hotman485: ] I'm back now, sorry.
12:35
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Thanks Dr.
Schlossberg.
12:36
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Pat, One woman I know, a single
mom, went to work at a grocery chain as a cashier. She plans to get
into middle and top management but knew she had to start at the
bottom. Sometimes you have to take "For Now Jobs" until you find
something better.
12:36
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Pat - think first about what
sort of activities bring you satisfaction.
12:36
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] thanks Melissa. .
.i need to create a mission statement for myself. I like that idea!
12:37
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: About being terrified. It is about
options. If you can see the options out there, if you can be
convinced that there are opportunities for you, you will be less
terrified. Looking at the chapter in Revitalizing Retirement on
paths, reading the book Melissa suggested on Paths--these will help
you realize there is a future for you.
12:38
[Comment From patpat: ] I tried to get a cahiers job, but I
am overqualified and can not get the simplest jobs.
12:38
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: early retiree - a mission
statement might be a good idea. Keep in mind that your current
situation is temporary, not permanent. Update your mission later
when you have made it through this incredibly tough patch of life.
12:40
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: The woman I am talking about knew
she was overqualified. But she kept going back and finally they
took her to see if she would fit into their management program. It
is hard to keep trying, but remember, successes fail but keep
trying. You might consider writing a journal of your
experiences--maybe call it "Too Qualified."
12:41
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Thanks Melissa, I
do have to focus on what is important right now. I know in my heart
that with God on my side, I will be ok. I will take your advice
though and stop worrying and get pass this time in my life as I
hope it will only be temporary!
12:42
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: A general question--As you look
around, can you identify anyone who seems to be a happy retiree?
12:42
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Pat - think about how you
naturally want to spend your time - is it in the garden, or fixing
cars, or reading books, is it focused on a cause, or what... Then
brainstorm opportunities to do more of whatever those things are.
If you don't need to work for money, then look for volunteer
opportunities in one or two of your favorite arenas.
12:42
Brooks KXAN: My mother-in-law. She's happy as a clam.
12:42
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: What are the ingredients that make
her happy?
12:43
Brooks KXAN: She likes to spend time with her grandkid and
chidren, watch movies, cook great food, work in the yard, go visit
her sister in law in Oklahoma.
12:44
Brooks KXAN: She and her husband go out of town a lot,
actually - mor e now that he's retired, too.
12:44
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Early Retiree - as I wrote to
you I couldn't help but think that your current mission is
recreating your health and mental well being.... managing your
finances and your engagement in the world during this time are
elements that will build your well being, but your current ability
to solve those things is likely to be less than it will be in the
future.
12:45
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: She is an Easy Glider--enjoying
life with no agenda. Everyone has different needs and some need to
continue working, others need to try new things, others need to
keep searching. Once you settle on your path -- for the time
being--you will feel more comfortable with your life.
The most important thing is to identify your passion and
pursue it either as a worker or volunteer.
12:46
Brooks KXAN: I spoke with someone recently who thought she
was that way - an Easy Glider type - when she retired. Then foudn
out differently and is now freaking out.
Is there any way to tell in advance how you're going to
handle it? Clues?
12:46
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: We have not discussed identity and
that is major. Many are uncomfortable when they no longer have
their "tag." We so often identify ourselves by our work titles that
in retirement we struggle to find our identity.
12:47
Brooks KXAN: LOl nancy great minds
12:48
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Brooks, There is no way to totally
predict whether the original path you choose after retirement is
the one that fits forever. People change, their needs change and
they move on to something else. The one thing I think is
certain--we will all be searchers at one time or another.
I have been a continuer--still writing and lecturing. But
someday I will need to search for a new path in retirement.
12:49
Brooks KXAN: So ther eare Gliders, Continuers, Searchers.
What else? This is interesting.
12:50
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Brooks - That can be really
hard. It's why I suggest that people think of the beginning year(s)
of retirement as a series of small experiments. It seems many
people assume they'll just be really happy having the opportunity
to glide, but the reality is that they need something different out
of life. It's hard for many to anticipate their own reactions while
they are working full time. I kind of think it's similar to being a
young adult again - a phase of life where one needs to experiment
to learn what works for you.
12:50
Brooks KXAN: or, can you elaborate on what those are? (aside
from gliders, which you've already talked about...)
12:50
Brooks KXAN: "a series of small experiments" i like that idea
a lot.
12:50
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] You are right Dr.
Schlossberg. I think that is what got me more depressed when I was
terminated was that I did not have a job rather than concentrating
on the good things that can come from being "retired". It is time
to redefine myself.
12:51
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: In addition to Easy Gliders,
Continuers, Searchers, there are adventurers--doing something
entirely different, involved spectators (like a news junky who used
to wall the halls of congress--still involved but as a spectator)
and then there are the retreaters--
12:52
Brooks KXAN: That's it!!! That's what i'll be doing! Giving
tours of the Capital as a former news junkie who spent most of her
career covering politics! :) And you think I'm kidding, but I might
have just had a fantastic idea here. Must not forget that.
12:52
Brooks KXAN: retreaters..?
12:52
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Early retiree--It can take time to
redefine yourself. So give yourself time; try different things. I
did it with cards--what would I put on a card and how would that
change each 6 months.
12:52
Brooks KXAN: Why do you suppose so many people redefine
themselves AFTER retirement?
12:52
Brooks KXAN: Is it money related? I asked this earlier but
not sure i caught the answer.
For the rest of you, we have 8 minutes left in this
fascinating chat!
12:53
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Retreaters are those who are
depressed and cannot get moving. Sometimes it is healthy to retreat
but other times we need to get a connector to help us get back in
the world.
12:53
[Comment From rick garciarick garcia: ] don't know if anyone
has mentioned it, but some co-workers have talked of leaving the
U.S. and retiring in a foreign country, where their money will go
farther.
12:54
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Moving is an option but those who
move are better off doing it on a trial basis before making it
permanent. My first research study on transitions was about
geographical moving. It sounds like fun and easy but it can be very
disrupting.
12:54
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Brooks - many people are pretty
satisfied with the work life they created and don't feel a need to
redefine until retirement age. But a lot of folks make mid career
shifts. There is plenty of redefining going on at all ages. It's
just that retirement is such a clear demarcation line, and major
transition that everyone goes through unless they work
continuously.
12:55
Brooks KXAN: Guanajuato and San Miguel de Allende, Mex., are
FILLED with ex-pat retirees. I've considered that myself, but it'll
depend on how my extended family is doing. I relaly like having
them close.
12:55
Brooks KXAN: makes sense melissa
12:56
Brooks KXAN: FIVE MINUTES LEFT. Last minute questions anyone?
While you're thinking about that, remind you that we'll have
a financial expert on retirement issues joining us NEXT WEEK right
here - same time same place - so we can look at the flip side of
this issue.
12:56
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: A final comment on retirement--Why
retirement, in fact any transition, is so challenging is that it
changes your roles, routines, relationships and assumptions about
yourself and your world. It is about getting a new life--new roles,
relationships, routines and assumptions. That takes time. Be kind
to yourself.
12:56
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Thank you all for
your time and answers. Have a great day!
12:56
[Comment From KDMKDM: ] I'm retiring at the end of next month
(36 days) with a sizable lump sum retiremtn, so I'm convinced, with
the right investments, money won't be a problem at least for the
next few years. What I wonder most about is what is the right
investments to make? 401K, Roth IRA, Stock, Gold? Considering the
ever growing natioinal debt, will the US dollar be as viable in a
few years as it is now?
12:56
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Rick - money will go further,
and it's a new life adventure. I have a friend who retired to
Mexico and now works harder as a volunteer for an orphanage than
she may have worked in her paid career. She has transformed the
place and the lives of those children.
12:57
Brooks KXAN: KDM - your question is a great one, but better
reserved for next week when our money experts join us. This week is
mostly about the emotional issues surrounding retirement.
12:57
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Early Retiree - I'll be rooting
for you!
12:57
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Loved being on the show.
12:57
Brooks KXAN: But make srue you join us next week same time
same place, because our expert will DEFINTELY be able to answer
those questions.
12:57
[Comment From davdav: ] Thank you for your comments
12:57
Brooks KXAN: Nancy and Melissa both, I SO appreciate the
fascinating discussion today!!!! Do you want to give any final
thoughts while I wrap up?
12:58
[Comment From early retireeearly retiree: ] Thanks Melissa.
12:58
Brooks KXAN: The rest of you, best of luck to you - join us
next week for the flip side of the retirement issue - MONEY - and
thank you so much for all your great questions and comments today!!
12:58
Dr. Nancy K. Schlossberg: Just that life is full of Plan B's,
new opportunities, surprises. Exploring your future is daunting but
also exciting
12:59
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: I think one of our themes has
been suggesting that people plan ahead as much as possible; it
reduces fear. And, then accept the reality of the rollercoaster of
life and treat retirement as a series of small experiments that are
about being satisfied and enjoying life!
1:01
[Comment From rick garciarick garcia: ] thanks everyone1
1:01
Melissa Schenker, Work/Life: Till next week!
1:01
Brooks KXAN: Great thoughts, experts! Have a wonderful
afternoon, thanks for everything, and we'lls ee you soon.
Commenters, enjoy your life! Enjoy your week! And enjoy
retirement :)
1:01
Brooks KXAN: Over and out.
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